As the year draws to a close, it’s the perfect moment to pause and reflect on the journey we’ve taken. Growth begins with understanding where we’ve been—what worked, what didn’t, and what we’ve learned along the way. Reflection isn’t just a passive act; it’s a powerful tool for measuring progress, identifying areas for growth, and setting the stage for an intentional future.
This reminds me of a concept from Atomic Habits by James Clear: the importance of feedback loops. As many personal development experts highlight, “You can only improve what you can measure.” For me, reflection has become that feedback loop—a way to track my growth and make meaningful changes as I prepare for 2025.
Revisiting my time in the UK for graduation this December reminded me how far I’ve come and how much support I’ve had along the way. Reuniting with friends from my MBA class and those I call my UK family was deeply emotional and filled me with gratitude.
Reflecting on 2024: Goals Achieved and Lessons Learned
At the start of 2024, I set ambitious objectives to challenge myself and align with my long-term vision. These goals weren’t just about ticking boxes; they were milestones for transformation. Here’s what I set out to achieve and the lessons I learned:
1. Leave Vietnam, Step Out of My Comfort Zone, and Study and Living Abroad in the UK and Spain
Accomplished and ongoing
Leaving my home country to study abroad was a pivotal decision. It pushed me to confront fears and embrace uncertainty. My MBA experience in the UK taught me to adapt to new academic standards, thrive in a multicultural environment, and overcome the emotional challenges of being far from home.
By September, I transitioned to Spain for a new chapter of living and working abroad. From learning the language to embracing Spanish culture, I’ve discovered the value of slowing down and savouring life’s simple joys. Growth isn’t about rushing; it’s about moving deliberately and appreciating each step.
2. Complete My MBA with Distinction
Accomplished
Completing my MBA was more than an academic milestone—it was a testament to discipline and perseverance. Balancing coursework, part-time work, and personal growth taught me the value of focus and time management. The distinction award validated my efforts and reminded me that consistent effort pays off.
3. Explore the International Business Landscape in the EU
Achieved and ongoing
Transitioning from theory to practice has been a key theme of 2024. Engaging with professionals and businesses in Spain has expanded my understanding of European markets and cross-cultural communication. Whether through networking events, webinars, or collaborations, these experiences continue to shape my strategic thinking.
Key Takeaways: What These Achievements Mean
The journey hasn’t just been about ticking boxes; it’s been about transformation. Every step forward has offered lessons that extend far beyond the initial objectives. Here are the most valuable insights I’ve gained:
The Power of Belief
Achieving these milestones has reaffirmed the importance of self-belief. When I set my mind to something, I’ve learned that consistent effort and faith in my abilities can overcome even the toughest obstacles. The path isn’t always smooth, but belief in my potential gives me the courage to keep moving forward.
Critical Thinking
This year has sharpened my ability to analyse situations from multiple angles. Whether navigating a business decision or a personal challenge, I’ve learned to weigh the pros and cons, appreciate nuances, and make thoughtful, informed choices.
Adaptability Without Losing Authenticity
Moving through significant life changes while staying true to my core values has been profoundly empowering. I’ve realised that adaptability doesn’t mean compromising who I am—it means finding ways to align my values with new circumstances. This alignment has provided both stability and purpose, even in moments of uncertainty.
The Joy of Continous Learning
For me, happiness lies not in reaching a final destination but in embracing the process of growth. Each challenge has been an opportunity to learn—whether through formal education, self-study, or the people I’ve met along the way. Viewing life as a continuous journey of learning keeps me curious, motivated, and open to new possibilities.
The Development of Self-Awareness
By taking time to reflect on my decisions, emotions, and actions, I’ve cultivated a clearer sense of who I am. This self-awareness has helped me make peace with the parts of myself I once struggled with and embrace the person I’m becoming. It has also strengthened my ability to make intentional choices that align with my true desires and long-term vision.
The Power of Prioritisation and Setting Clear Boundaries
One of the most transformative lessons has been learning to align my actions with my priorities. I’ve come to focus on what truly matters—tasks that drive my growth and relationships that nurture my soul.
To achieve this, I’ve eliminated distractions and practiced saying “No” to things that don’t serve my goals. Setting clear boundaries has not only safeguarded my time and energy but also deepened my connections with others. These boundaries aren’t barriers—they’re pathways to living with intention and authenticity.
Unplanned but Valuable Lessons
Life teaches us lessons in unexpected ways. In 2024, I faced challenges that reshaped my perspective and deepened my resilience. Here are some universal insights I gained:
Financial Struggles and Patience
Overconfidence in finding part-time work in a new country taught me humility and patience. Resilience comes from adapting to realities that don’t align with initial expectations.
Strength Through Connection
This year reminded me of the importance of cherishing relationships and leaning on a supportive community during tough moments. Even from afar, friends, mentors, and loved ones helped me navigate challenges and find emotional resilience.
Embracing Authenticity and Integrity
Letting go of what no longer serves us—whether it’s relationships or outdated narratives—is an act of self-respect. This year, I learned the importance of aligning my choices with my well-being and long-term vision.
During my MBA, sharing my story of letting go of a marriage taught me the power of vulnerability and honesty. At the same time, moments of unfair treatment tested my integrity, but seeking guidance and standing firm in my values brought me strength and pride.
Finding Purpose Through Service
Volunteering and interpreting for Vietnamese communities gave me fulfilment and a sense of purpose. It’s a reminder of the transformative power of contributing to something larger than myself.
Now, What’s Next?
I’ve done the MBA, and my traineeship in Spain has nine months remaining. But what comes after that? Honestly, I’m still figuring it out, just like many of you might be as the new year begins.
When friends ask, “What’s your plan?” I tell them, “I’m planting a few seeds and monitoring to see which one grows first.” I love this analogy for the scenarios I’m navigating. It keeps things a bit mysterious as I prefer to reveal the results when they’re more concrete. I don’t like to tempt fate too early; maybe it’s just my way of staying grounded.
As I move forward, I’ll continue sharing my journey and insights on this blog and YouTube channel. These platforms have become spaces where I reflect, share strategies, and connect with others navigating their own paths. If you’re curious about goal-setting, personal growth, or life abroad, I’d love for you to join me there! Let’s see where this path takes us!
Your Turn: Review, Reflect, Learn, and Act
As you wrap up 2024, I invite you to take a moment to pause and reflect on your own journey, which is the first step toward creating a meaningful plan for 2025.
Here are some guiding questions to help you focus your thoughts:
1. What were my proudest achievements and missed opportunities this year?
Celebrate the wins that brought you closer to your goals. At the same time, identify areas where opportunities slipped through the cracks and consider how you can create space for growth next year.
2. What challenges or setbacks did I face, and what did they teach me?
Use these lessons to strengthen your resilience and refine your strategies moving forward.
3. Where did I invest my time and energy, and was it worth it?
Reflect on whether your efforts aligned with your values and priorities, and adjust your focus for the coming year accordingly.
4. What habits or systems helped me thrive, and which ones held me back?
Build on what worked, redesign what didn’t, and create routines that support your long-term vision.
By the way, if you’re curious about goal-setting, I wrote a blog a while back about the SMARTER framework—something I learned during my MBA. It’s a practical tool that helped me structure my ambitions and keep track of my progress. Feel free to check it out for insights into making your goals actionable and meaningful!
These reflections provide a foundation for crafting your roadmap for 2025. As you look ahead, apply the SMARTER framework to define your goals clearly and make them actionable. Stay flexible as life evolves, but remain focused on what truly matters to you.
Remember: the past is a guide, not a limitation. Use the insights you’ve gained to move into the new year with intention, clarity, and confidence.
Closing Thoughts: Embracing Uncertainty and Moving Forward Together
2024 has tested us all in different ways. My friends, whether through moments of isolation, the weight of loss, or the challenges of self-doubt, this year reminded us of the resilience we carry within. It also reinforced a powerful truth: we are not alone in facing life’s challenges. By leaning on each other—be it friends, mentors, or supportive communities—we find the strength to navigate the most challenging times.
As we step into 2025, let’s carry the lessons, experiences, and growth we’ve gained. Growth isn’t linear, and uncertainties are a natural part of the journey. Together, we can embrace these uncertainties with strategic plans and intentional actions. Let’s plant seeds for the future, nurture them with care, and remain open to the possibilities they bring.
Here’s to stepping boldly into the new year with clarity, courage, and purpose—knowing that every step, no matter how small, moves us closer to the lives we aspire to build.